How to Resign Respectfully: Protect Your Brand and Future Referee
Accepting a new permanent role is exciting, but how you leave your current one matters just as much as how you land the next. In New Zealand's health sector, networks are small and people move between clinics, practices and providers more often than you might expect. The manager you resign to today could be a referee, a colleague or even a future employer. Here is how to leave well.
Tell your manager first
Your manager should hear it from you, in person or on a call, before anyone else. Avoid letting the news travel through the grapevine. Book a private conversation, keep it calm and professional, and follow it with a short written resignation that states your last day. Keep the tone positive and brief. You do not need to explain every reason for leaving.
Give proper notice and honour it
Check your employment agreement for the notice period and stick to it. In health settings, patients and teams rely on continuity, so a clean handover is a genuine act of professionalism. If your new employer wants you to start sooner, speak with them about flexibility, but do not leave your current team stranded. Reliability in your final weeks is what people remember.
Handle a counteroffer carefully
Sometimes an employer responds to a resignation with more money or a new title. It can feel flattering, but think about why you wanted to leave in the first place. Pay is rarely the only reason. If the underlying issues are not changing, a counteroffer often delays the same decision. Talk it through with your recruiter before you respond.
Leave the door open
Stay positive in your exit conversation and your farewell messages. Avoid venting about colleagues or the organisation, even if you are frustrated. Thank people sincerely, offer to help with the transition and, once you have left, keep in touch with the colleagues who supported you. A good referee is built over years, but it can be undone in a single bitter final week.
Your resignation checklist
Run through these points before you hand in notice:
- I have a signed offer for my new role
- I have checked my notice period and agreement
- I have prepared a short, positive resignation letter
- I will tell my manager before telling colleagues
- I have a handover plan for patients, tasks and documents
- I have decided how I will respond to a counteroffer
Leaving well protects your reputation and keeps valuable relationships intact. Done right, your old manager may end up as your strongest advocate for years to come.
Ready for your next permanent health role in New Zealand? Talk to the RWR Health team today at www.rwrhealth.co.nz.

